Wendyl Nissen

Memories of long, hot Kiwi summers are wonderful when you live overseas, but what happens when that kind of summer fails to materialise for a special guest?

Safety in numbers is great for some things, but not when you’re overweight and relying on a friend to make you feel okay about that.

Dear Wendyl, Recently I met a great man. We get on so well, share a lot of the same interests and he adores me. But no matter how hard I try I'm not physically attracted to him. When we sleep together

Dear Wendyl, I come from an unusual family in that I'm the only one who has managed to make a go at life. I own my own business, have a great marriage and three terrific kids. But the rest of my family

Dear Wendyl, Recently my boyfriend and I had a huge argument. We had both had a bit to drink, but I never expected him to hit me. He whacked me across the side of my face so hard that I fell against the

Dear Wendyl, our daughter and her ex husband ended their marriage recently. As the divorce is a good length of time away, we would like to know if we're still beholden to give gifts to the ex for Christmas

Dear Wendyl, I love my partner of six months a lot and our sex life is pretty amazing. The only problem is he still talks about his ex and the antics they got up to in the bedroom. We'll be in bed and

Dealing with a partner's infidelity can be more difficult than some people can bear, so the relationship breaks up. But what if your partner mends their ways and refuses to leave? Hi Wendyl, I thought

Dear Wendyl, I have just moved into a new rental property. I'm 44, single and live on my own, and I have met a very nice new neighbour. He's single, 42 and lives with his son.

Trust is so important if any relationship is going to be truly happy. But what happens when trust is lost all because of a computer? Dear Wendyl, I think my husband has been watching pornography late