Wendyl Nissen

Some people look forward to retiring when they're older, but others would rather have more financial security and be busy, so they keep working. But what happens when your husband forces you to retire?

Dear Wendyl, Six months ago I went on a business trip with a team from work. one night, after we’d finished a hard day’s work, I drank too much and ended up in bed with a colleague in his hotel room. The next day we both agreed it was a bad idea and left it […]

Dear Wendyl, My husband has been divorced for 14 years. After all this time his ex-wife still comes before him and me

Dear Wendyl, Some friends recently set me up with a guy by inviting us both to a party. It was a bit awkward, as we both knew we were being set up, but I knew the minute I saw him that he was the one

Dear Wendyl, I moved recently, and get along with my new neighbours very well. often we'll get together to do gardening or watch movies. one of my neighbours is a very nice man, and we get on famously.

Dear Wendyl, My husband recently invited some old friends of ours to stay for two weeks. They were visiting from Australia and we hadn't seen them for 20 years

Dear Wendyl, Recently there was a report in the paper about the number of sexual partners people have in their lifetime. My husband read it and asked me how many I have had, so I told him. He was really shocked and said he had no idea when he married me 25 years ago that […]

Dear Wendyl, my girlfriends say I'm not open with them enough about difficulties in my personal life

Dear Wendyl, I've been seeing a man in what I thought was a casual relationship where we meet up, go out, sleep together and generally have fun. We're both in our forties...

Sleeping in separate bedrooms is usually something couples only do after a fight, or because someone is snoring or has a bad cough. But what happens when the person in the spare room doesn't come back to the bedroom?