April Ieremia

Breaking up is always hard, regardless of whether you are the “dumper” or the “dumpee”.  Too often we stay in a relationship that no longer serves us well, and soon become trapped in a downward spiral of emotional misery. Staying true to yourself is a hard thing to do, and being upfront and honest from […]

How can you tell if he really loves you? Is it in his kiss? He says he loves me but he’s always late, never pays, prefers his mates, flirts openly, fires up regularly, ignores my family, tells porkies, criticises my dress sense, forgets my birthday, does nothing around the house and is the host with […]

Matchmaking is an art form, a God-given gift that elevates the rare individual who possesses the skill to a level of genius. It’s a brave person that chooses to venture through the psyche of another, believing they have what it takes to make the other happy. I am not one such person – but when […]

Long distance relationships are all about hours on the phone, hours on the road and hours on your own. It’s not for everyone, full of giant pregnant pauses of not knowing when your next rendezvous will be and the insecurities that ensue. Are the sleepless nights of wondering what he’s up to really worth it? […]

In deep discussion about what “true love” is and if it exists, someone challenged me to write a blog about it. He challenged me to think about a concept almost as multifaceted as the concept of God. What is God? Most of us understand the idea but we struggle to define it, let alone prove […]

Will you marry me? Four little words the desperately in love long to hear. Words that can create empires or sink ships.

Dear Eros, can you please send me a seriously hot 6ft 4in Adonis with chiseled abs, a tight butt and wrap-around arms for Valentine’s Day?