Hills star Lauren Conrad has always been a champion of good manners and etiquette. She’s written books on party planning, how to host, and even how to present yourself properly.
So it should come as no surprise that the reality star turned website owner, author and soon to be mum, has written the guide on what not to say regarding pregnancy and kids.
Here are Lauren’s top four rules, whether you’re the best friend or almost a stranger.
Don’t ask when they’re having kids
This should be obvious, but even when a couple is married, set up house and seem set for welcoming children – it’s just not appropriate to start asking them. You have no idea whether that couple want kids, perhaps they’re still deciding, and they could also be suffering with fertility issues. You asking a seemingly harmless question could be a massive trigger. “Wait for them to volunteer the information first,” says Lauren.
Never congratulate until you know for sure
This is probably the most embarrassing situation for all parties involved. Have you ever asked someone when the baby is due before being informed they’re not actually pregnant? Just don’t do it. Wait till someone tells you – just hold your tongue.
There’s no need to compare sizes
Some pregnant women barely change shape during their pregnancy, and some balloon. Either way, they’re probably feeling pretty weird about their bodies. Don’t add fuel to the fire by commenting on how massive-tiny-weirdly shaped they are.
Don’t touch without asking
Chances are, you wouldn’t walk up to a non-pregnant person and start rubbing their body. The same rules apply to pregnant women. If you want to touch her bump – ask her!
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