It’s a question many singletons are seeking the answer for – what is it that makes us most attractive to the opposite sex?
These ladies of Reddit gave their 2c on what really catches their eye when it comes to men.
“When their eyes become softer when looking at you.”
“Being funny will reign supreme always.”
“Protective and kind to his family (obvious exceptions if the family are assholes).”
“Being kind and honest. Put the pride and fear aside and talk straight with a little empathy and caring. It goes a long way in building trust and respect. Of course that takes courage and a willingness to be vulnerable.”
“Sounds cheesy, but smiling. Nothing in this world makes me happier or fall for a guy faster/more than seeing him smile every time he sees me.”
“My boyfriend won me over by treating me like a person rather than a conquest. He’s super attractive, but if he acted like most of the other men that have been interested in me then I wouldn’t have been interested.”
“Not afraid of things even slightly feminine (using lotion on dry skin, watching certain movies, driving a car that is not a truck).”
“Wants to legitimately get to know you. Listens.”
“Intelligence. Can’t stand a dude I can’t have an educated argument with.”
“Being good with children and animals. Beautiful.”
