There’s something magical about reading a good book, but it’s even better when you can talk about it with someone who gets it. That moment when a plot twist knocks you sideways or you’re bursting to debate an ending? That’s exactly where a book club shines. Whether you’re a lifelong literary lover or perhaps looking to make time for reading again, starting one up is easier than you think.
Your why
Book clubs aren’t just about the books – they’re mini communities! They’re about building something regular, meaningful and low-pressure in a world that often feels rushed and digital. Here’s what a good book club gives you:
● Accountability to keep reading when life gets hectic.
● Social connection and deeper conversations.
● New discoveries – books you’d never pick up on your own.
● Fresh perspectives on a book from other readers (often surprising ones!).
● Mental stimulation, which studies link to better memory and wellbeing.
● Plus… snacks, wine (if you’re that way inclined) and a lot of laughter.
Step 1 Find your people
You don’t need a huge group. Three to six people is ideal – big enough for lively discussion and small enough that everyone gets a voice. Start with your existing circles: friends, neighbours, colleagues or extended family. Or reach out to your community – local libraries, bookshops and online forums often have readers looking to join. Want to go niche? Start a themed club. For example, memoirs only, Māori authors, fantasy fans or short stories for busy people.
Step 2 Set the tone
Is your group here for deep literary analysis or light reads with wine and cheese? A bit of both? Establish a shared understanding early on:
● What kinds of books will you read?
● How formal or relaxed will your discussions be?
● Will you stick to one genre or rotate?
● Are you okay with spoilers? Some clubs discuss as they go!
There’s no wrong answer, but being on the same page helps keep things smooth.
Step 3 Decide the details
Set a structure that’s realistic and relaxed. Most clubs meet:
● How often? Monthly tends to work well.
● When? E.g. first Sunday of the month.
● Where? Someone’s home, a rotating host, a café or online.
● How long? One to two hours is usually plenty.
Step 4 Pick your first book
To get things rolling, choose something widely available, not too dense and likely to spark conversation. Avoid anything too niche right out the gate. A few tips:
● Go for something that sparks emotion or debate.
● Offer two to three options and vote.
● Avoid books members have already read. It’s nice to go on the journey together.
Step 5 Make it engaging
Here’s where it gets fun. Keep the energy up with these easy, playful ideas:
ROTATE HOSTS
Each person picks the next book and leads discussion.
BLIND BOOK SWAPS
At the end of a meeting, everyone brings a favourite book wrapped in brown paper with a few cryptic clues written on the front (no titles!). Everyone chooses one to take home and read.
THEMED NIGHTS
Match the meeting vibe to the book. Reading The Paris Library? Serve French pastries. Reading a mystery? Host a “whodunnit” potluck – each dish is a clue.
BOOK-TO-FILM DOUBLE FEATURES
Read the book, then watch the adaptation together and debate the differences.
BOOK OSCARS
At year-end, hand out fun awards complete with mini trophies: Best Plot Twist, Most Beautiful Writing, Book You Secretly Didn’t Finish.
SPEED ROUND QUESTIONS
Break the ice with quick prompts: “Describe this book in three words” and, “Who would you cast in a film version?”
Step 6 Stay flexible and kind
will skip books or miss meetings and that’s okay! Often, some of the best chats come from people who haven’t finished the book, but still have thoughts. The goal isn’t to finish perfectly, it’s to enjoy the journey as a group.
