Career

How F1 driver Liam Lawson’s family support his career

The young champ reveals it took a village to fast track his driving career
Robert Trathen, Redbull content pool

Kristy Lawson is used to taking care of things. Her garden is bursting with watermelons, sweetcorn and various summer berries, and she’s clearly in her element with the whole family at home. And currently, that includes her son, Red Bull Racing’s Formula 1 reserve driver Liam Lawson, who last month was named a finalist in the Halberg Awards for New Zealand’s Best Sporting Moment for his top-10 finish at the 2023 Singapore Grand Prix.

“I love having everyone home,” tells Kristy, 52, who also shares Jessica, 30, Holly, 23, Marcos, 19, and Leah, 18, with husband Jared, 50 – all of whom are at home when the Weekly visits in Pukekohe, South Auckland. “This isn’t even busy – it’s a holiday compared to how it used to be.”

This is the one time of year Liam is back from the UK, where he and his girlfriend, California-born Hannah, 20 – who’s also here – are based. After a few weeks’ rest, Liam returns to the track on February 11 – his 22nd birthday – behind the wheel of a go-kart for the 2024 KartSport Grand Prix. It’s a return to his roots for the aspiring Formula 1 driver, and one he always tries to attend as it’s the event that set him on his current path to become one of the best racing drivers in the world.

Liam’s in the running for a Halberg Award.

Although he missed out on a permanent seat on the 2024 Formula 1 grid, Liam got a taste of things to come in August last year, when he stepped in for the injured Daniel Ricciardo and made his Formula 1 debut in the Dutch Grand Prix. He’s known as the one to watch – which is something any mum would be proud of, but Kristy talks about all her kids with equal delight.

“We’ve treated all the kids the same,” she shares. “We’ve never stopped them doing what they want to do. Holly and Jess were both competitive dancers – they were both Irish dance national champions – but Jess’ dance school was 45 minutes away from where we lived in Clarks Beach at the time.

“Three times a week, when all the babies were asleep at lunchtime, I’d make dinners for everyone and put them in boxes – you learn very quickly to never have hungry children! When Jess finished school, I’d load everyone into the car with food and PJs, drive her to class, take the kids to Mum’s and give them all dinner and a bath before driving home again.”

But after six-year-old Liam got in a go-kart for the first time, things got complicated. “I’d meet Jared at the Papakura off-ramp or the Karaka rugby grounds, then carry on to dancing, while Jared took Liam go-karting in Mount Wellington,” Kristy recalls.

Aged 10, Liam was already winning go-kart races.

“From the start, Liam was fiercely competitive – he hated being at the back of the field,” says Jared, who is general manager of a freight company. “We’d go to the local kart club every week and it just grew. That turned into 40-plus meetings a year across the North and South Islands.

“If you want to do it seriously, you must do as many meets as you can. The more you do, the faster you go. The faster you go, the more you test. Liam had to prove himself in those early days, and he won his first national title when he was 10, and won four national titles back-to-back in 2012 and 2013.”

Liam says he knew from the moment he got behind a go-kart wheel that he’d found his passion. “Even before I started driving cars, I knew,” reflects Liam. “Dad would watch Supercars and Formula 1 on TV, and as soon as I was old enough to understand what was going on, I knew that was what I wanted to be.”

Adds Kristy, “He was always obsessed with anything that had wheels. He’d make speed bumps for toy cars and practice making jumps work on the floor at home.”

But Jared and Kristy soon realised that to keep Liam doing what he loved, something had to change.

Doing his family proud (from left) Leah, Holly, girlfriend Hannah, mum Kristy, dad Jared, Marcos and Jessica.

“It’s a great sport, but to race competitively, you need to spend a lot of money on it,” says Jared. “The first year he got into it, he didn’t have the best gear and the engine wasn’t great. He did learn to get the most out of it, though, by learning how to carry speed through the corners and brake as late as he could.”

But to progress further, Liam needed better equipment.

“You need the best engines and the best tyres or you can’t keep winning, so we applied for a young New Zealand rookie driver development programme, the SpeedSport Scholarship,” tells Jared. “It was the only way to help him follow his dream. Liam getting that – along with a lot of help from sponsors – was a game-changer.”

While the scholarship helped with funding, it was up to Jared to teach his then-12-year-old son how to drive. Liam wanted to learn manual, but the only manual in the family was owned by big sister Jess.

“Dad would take Liam out to the park in my little VW Polo and teach him practice starts in it,” laughs Jess. “I thought he was just learning the gears, but Dad was teaching him how to do racing techniques like dropping the clutch. He absolutely burned my poor little car!”

Liam quickly progressed through the ranks, clinching the 2016 Formula Ford championship on his 15th birthday. But his dedication meant something had to give, and at the end of Year 11, he was given permission to leave school early.

“Liam had done most of his schooling, with the odd Friday off, but he’d been invited to go to Europe the next year,” recalls Kristy. “He’s smart – he works with the engineers and has learned everything about cars – but school wasn’t his thing. We looked into online schooling, but being on the other side of the world made it impossible.”

Back home for the holidays, Liam checks out his racing memorabilia, which his parents have collected.

Liam tells, “I remember doing practice sessions for a race in Europe and watching some of the other racers doing schoolwork on the side. I was concentrating 100 percent on improving my driving and they were doing English assignments.” Liam signed his first multi-year driver contract with Red Bull on his 17th birthday.

Although Liam admits he missed out on some “normal” teen benchmarks, like house parties, he wouldn’t change a thing.

“It’s all been my choice,” he insists. “It’s easy on the motor-racing circuit for your head to be turned, and plenty of drivers go out a lot and enjoy drinking and partying, but my focus has always been on driving.”

Although Liam is clearly loving being home with family, his eyes are firmly on becoming a full-time Formula 1 driver.

“When Liam’s home, he’s Liam. When he’s racing, he takes on a whole other personality,” says Jared. “As soon as he gets to the track, he becomes completely focused and blocks out all outside noise.”

“Every race I do is just very, very important,” insists Liam, who adheres rigorously to the training and nutrition calendar he has on an app on his phone. “Even go-kart races feel as important as a Formula 1 race. It doesn’t matter what the race is – I just want to be the best.”

Revved for romance! Liam and Hannah are based in the UK.

So how does he have time for a girlfriend?

“He doesn’t!” laughs Hannah, who turns 21 on February 12 – the day after Liam’s birthday. “I’m doing an online course at Arizona State University to become a Physician Assistant, and I make sure I’ve done all my study when he’s away so I can give him all my time when he’s home.”

It’s clear that for Liam to achieve his dream, it takes a village. But his family wouldn’t have it any other way – almost.

“I can’t watch his races!” admits Kristy. “At the beginning, I could, although I didn’t like it. Now, when he’s racing, the TV is on upstairs and I’ll be downstairs with my headphones on, playing music. It’s not even about the safety. I just can’t bear to see him disappointed.

“Jess is my eyes – she updates me on every lap, letting me know he’s all right. Then I can come in for the last lap and watch him drive over the finish line.”

“I’m incredibly lucky to have the support I do – from everyone,” says Liam, who returns to the UK this month. “I’m loving being home – although Mum makes sure I stay up to date when I’m away. She even FaceTimes me to show me how well her veges are growing!”

Celebrity News

Why Mike Puru cancelled his move to France

The radio star’s put his French fantasy on hold, but ooh la la, it’ll be worth it!

This was the year that broadcaster Mike Puru was meant to be changing his life. He and his partner of 10 years, Anton Chartier, were full of plans to sell up and move to south-west France, which is where Anton’s family comes from.

But if you’ve listened to radio station The Breeze recently, you may have noticed that’s not quite how things have worked out. Instead of swotting up on his French and putting his Auckland home on the market, Mike is now the station’s new breakfast show host.

“The timing just wasn’t right for France,” he explains. “We decided to go after I left my last job and my career was in a bit of a lull. It seemed like the perfect opportunity to take a break. But by the end of last year, a couple of things had happened. I got the offer to join The Breeze, which was fantastic. But also, my dad’s not well, so it’s not the right time to disappear.”

Learning te reo is next on the busy broadcaster’s to-do list. “I didn’t even use to pronounce Puru correctly!”

Mike’s work schedule has meant he hasn’t always been able to spend much time with his parents, Wayne and Diana, who live in Timaru, but this year he’s determined to see them more often.

“Dad’s a great music lover and he likes going to gigs, so I want to make sure I go to some with him and we have a few beers before he gets too sick or it’s too late.”

When Mike was born, his dad was only 17 and his mum not very much older. They may have been very young parents, but he says they’ve always been amazing.

“They’ve gone through some ups and downs in life – like in 1984, our house burned to the ground and there was nothing left, which was heartbreaking. So things haven’t always been easy, but all they ever wanted was for us kids to have opportunities and they’ve always been really supportive of me.”

For Mike, one of the nice things about being back on the radio is that he knows, down in Southland, his family’s tuning in. “The first morning, I got a message from Mum to say she was listening.”

The cheeky chap aged seven!

Mike’s also on TV every weekend presenting the weather for Newshub and he has a regular country music show for online station Southern Cross Country. All of this means he’s working seven days a week.

“If you love it, then it doesn’t feel like work,” he says. “And I’m lucky to have such amazing opportunities.”

For mental clarity, Mike tries to make sure he has time for exercise, whether that’s taking his cocker spaniel Rufus for a walk or heading out for a run.

“Being on television definitely helps motivate you,” he says. “One viewer sent an email saying my suits were getting a bit tight and I needed either to lose some weight or get bigger clothes!”

Next year, Mike turns 50. “Which scares the hell out of me,” he admits. “I used to look at people in their fifties and think they must have their life in order and be ready for retirement, but now I’m getting close to 50 myself, I’m realising that, actually, I need to ramp up my life a little more.”

Parents Wayne and Diana with kids (from left) Mike, Kelli (front) and Gloria.

One his goals this year is to learn te reo Māori.

“I thought I’d left it too late and had passed the point where I could learn it, but then I watched Mike McRoberts’ documentary Kia Ora, Good Evening about his journey and it gave me hope that it’s never too late.”

Growing up in Gore meant that Mike didn’t get to connect very often with Wayne’s whānau in Ōpōtiki.

“So that’s something I really want to do. I still feel a bit awkward about not knowing the protocol and getting pronunciation wrong – I didn’t even use to pronounce Puru correctly! I’ve got a lot of learning to do, but I want to embrace it.

“With Dad unwell, it feels important to acknowledge the Māori side and make sure I don’t lose that connection. It’ll make me feel a bit more complete.”

Mike also wants to make sure the dream of France stays alive. Later in the year, he and Anton will be heading over there for a break and will take the opportunity to start scouting a few properties.

“I’d love to find an 800-year-old house or a little piece of land so I can start building towards my French future,” says Mike. “Even though there are sure to be challenges ahead, I’m determined to make the most of this year.”

TV

Lillian Wigglesworth’s road from tragedy to The Great Kiwi Bake Off

Bake Off’s smart cookie doesn’t want brownie points because of her disability
Selina Nunn

Five years ago, Canterbury’s Lillian Wrigglesworth would never have dreamed of entering a reality TV show like The Great Kiwi Bake Off.

“I’d never have done it,” she says. “It just wasn’t me.”

But just over a year ago, while making a quiche, she found herself filling in an application for the cooking programme.

“I don’t know why I did it – it was totally random,” admits Lillian, one of 10 contestants on the TVNZ 1 show. “But that’s the new me – doing things I wouldn’t have done before. After what’s happened, I’ve realised you have to go out and try new stuff, and make every day count because you never know what’s around the corner.”

Lillian was still learning to walk on her new limb when she went on Bake Off.

What happened to Lillian, 57, was a terrible freak accident that led to her losing her leg. At the end of 2019, she slipped on wet tiles while leaving a restaurant, suffering multiple injuries to her left leg, including a shattered kneecap.

“When I went to hospital, they didn’t realise the femoral artery behind my knee was crushed,” explains Lillian. “There’s only a six-hour window to repair it and it took too long. None of my bone injuries healed because I only had a thin vein of blood running down my leg. I was also left with lots of blood clots behind my knee.”

Unfortunately, surgery was out of the question. “They couldn’t fix my artery without fixing the bone and they couldn’t fix the bone without fixing the artery. And they couldn’t do both surgeries at once because it would have put too much pressure on my heart, not that I have a heart problem.”

Eighteen months later, her leg was amputated above the knee. “I knew I wasn’t going to be able to keep it. I was in a lot of pain. At the time, my husband Craig and I had a pub and I was doing all the cooking, and that’s what killed my leg in the end. It kept dislocating on me.”

It was a relief in a way to be rid of the limb, says Lillian. “At the end of the day, it’s just a leg.”

Her disability has changed her attitude, making her determined to try different experiences. And it didn’t put her and Craig, 58, a project manager, off buying 4.8 hectares of land in North Canterbury, where they’ve built a new home and raise animals, including goats and lambs.

Lillian admits that once she was chosen for the show, she worried about how she’d cope with spending up to 12 hours a day in a kitchen. When filming started, the mum-of-two had undergone an osseointegration procedure – in which a rod was implanted in her femur – a few weeks earlier and she was still getting used to her artificial limb.

“I was still learning to walk, so I was pretty nervous. I did end up in quite a bit of pain, but you just have to get on with it.”

Lillian had concerns she’d only been selected because of her disability.

“I thought maybe it was because I was the only amputee who applied. I mentioned that when I did the psych interview that they get you to do – you’re in a kitchen with a lot of knives, they want to make sure no one’s going to start throwing them around if things don’t go well! I was told I’d obviously been picked for my personality and what they thought I could do.”

Bake Off co-hosts Pax Assadi and Hayley Sproull.

Lillian, a keen all-round cook, has been baking since she was a child. Her parents, Joan and Dave, were caterers, and she landed the job of filling the orders for scones because the ones she made were always perfect.

Since the accident, Lillian, who has worked as a prison officer and a youth justice worker, has adapted the way she does things in all aspects of her life, including in the kitchen. “You have to figure out what works for you. I’m pretty good at being organised and thinking outside the box.”

She says Bake Off was an amazing experience and the other contestants were incredible. “We’re such a diverse group, but we all got on and I’m sure we will be life-long friends.”

Lillian laughs as she shares the best piece of advice she was given before the show.

“I was making a pie before I went on and after I went to check on it, my husband said, ‘You need to work on your expressions before you go on TV – you look like a bulldog chewing wasps. You can’t do that face every time you check the oven.’

“I was so conscious of that the whole time I was filming. I hope I’ve managed not to do it!”

The Great Kiwi Bake Off screens Thursdays at 7.30pm on TVNZ 1.

Real Life

Family’s plea for change: ‘Our fight for Charley’

Officially becoming an adult has created another nightmare for her family
Juliette Drysdale

When Charley Hooper turned 18 recently, there was a cake with candles, gifts of clothing and jewellery, and a chorus of Happy Birthday from her parents Jenn and Mark, as well as brothers Zak and Cody.

But it wasn’t an occasion for celebration. Every one of Charley’s birthdays is a traumatic anniversary of what Jenn describes as “the single worst day of our collective lives”, but this milestone one was particularly upsetting because it marked a future that’s even more fraught now that she’s legally an adult.

Charley suffered a catastrophic brain injury at birth during a botched delivery that left her profoundly disabled. She can’t speak, see or move and it’s thought she has the brain function of a four- to six- week-old baby. She couldn’t blow out the candles on her cake or even see them. She doesn’t understand the concept of what a birthday is.

Her parents have spent the last 18 years lovingly and diligently caring for her every need, making sure she has the best life possible. But now she’s an adult and eligible for a weekly ACC payment, called Loss of Potential Earnings (LOPE), they have to be monitored to make sure they’re acting with her best financial interests at heart. The scrutiny feels like a punishment, says her mother.

“For 17 years and 364 days we got on with looking after her, and the instant she turned 18, we have to be checked to make sure we’re not ripping her off,” says Jenn, 52. “I have to do accounts and provide receipts for every cent that gets spent, and I have to get audited every year. And if I do anything that is seen to be irresponsible in any way, then I can be fined or put in jail.

“I understand that the rules are in place to protect people, but the way it works, it just makes life harder for the families, when it is already strained and difficult. And because we knew this was coming, it made her 18th birthday all that much harder. Her birthdays are horrible anyway because they’re a reminder of what we’ve lost, but going through all of this has made it feel like she’s not Charley any more. She’s a legal risk.”

Dad and brother Cody wish Charley a happy birthday.

Jenn’s voice catches as she says, “This birthday nearly broke me. Because it was the start of all the legal stuff I now have to deal with, it was actually more traumatic for me than the day of her birth. Then, I didn’t know what was coming. We had hope that because she survived what happened to her, she was going to be okay. But she isn’t. And nor are we. We were all left disabled that day.”

Charley was a much longed-for baby – Jenn and Mark had been trying to get pregnant for eight years. She was born in Morrinsville’s Rhoda Read Birthing Unit on September 7, 2005. An irregular heartbeat was picked up during labour, and when she was delivered, she was floppy and not breathing. Two midwives tried to resuscitate her, but missed a vital step – clearing her airway first. After half an hour, they finally called for help, which was another half an hour away. That meant Charley was without adequate oxygen for an hour. Meanwhile, Jenn suffered a life-threatening haemorrhage.

At five months, Charley was diagnosed with severe cerebral palsy, spastic tetraplegia, epilepsy and cortical visual impairment. She needs around-the-clock care, which she gets at her Hamilton home from her parents. Zak, 17, and Cody, eight, also chip in.

Jenn, a food scientist who has also been a professional singer, forklift driver and bar manager, and architectural draughtsman Mark gave up their jobs to care for Charley. They live off carers’ payments from ACC.

Jenn is blunt about what the medical mishap has meant to the couple and their sons, Zak (left) and Cody. “We were all left disabled that day.”

Over the years, the Hoopers have learned to do things like suction saliva from Charley’s airway and lungs, and give her physiotherapy. They take care all of her toileting and hygiene needs, and spoonfeed her meals, which takes up to six hours a day. They’re up frequently through the night to check on her breathing and change her position.

In their quest to make life as easy as possible for Charley, they’ve taken steps that have made a world of difference but proved controversial. They fought for Charley to have growth attenuation therapy, which involves giving oestrogen at a young age to stop bone growth. This means Charley will always be small – around 125cm and 25kg – making it easier for Jenn and Mark to care for her at home without needing equipment like a hoist to lift her, and to also be able to take her out. The hormones also eliminated seizures and significantly reduced excruciating muscle contractions Charley

suffers from.

Then, aged seven, Charley had her uterus removed. With a family history of painful periods, Jenn wanted to spare Charley from experiencing monthly agony she couldn’t tell anybody about.

Jenn also designed a brace she calls the Charley Wrap, to help support her daughter’s torso (Charley has scoliosis and very low muscle tone). She started a not-for-profit business, providing the wraps to families of other children with spinal and muscle tone issues worldwide.

As well as pouring her time and energy into helping her daughter, Jenn has stepped up to support other families with children injured at birth. In 2009, she co-founded network Action to Improve Maternity, a charitable trust which has assisted more than 800 Kiwi families who’ve experienced poor maternity care.

Plus she has set up a registered charity called Changing Places NZ, which designs and facilitates high-specification public bathrooms for those with complex care needs.

Along the way, Jenn – who has been described in the media as New Zealand’s Erin Brockovich – has been made a Member of the New Zealand Order of Merit for services to maternity care and people with disabilities, but admits she almost turned down the honour.

“I don’t feel like I have really changed anything yet. Every day is still a struggle for families like ours.”

The Hoopers with Governor-General Dame Patsy Reddy when Jenn got her Order of Merit in 2020.

As well as improved maternity care to prevent birth injuries happening in the first place, she’d like measures introduced to make it easier for families to navigate issues like getting a Protection of Property and Personal Rights (PPPR) order, which Jenn has to have to manage Charley’s health and money now she’s over 18. It took more than three months for the PPPR order to come through from the Family Court following Charley’s birthday, during which time Jenn wasn’t allowed to do things like access Charley’s bank accounts or make medical decisions.

“Instead of having to wait until they turn 18, there should be a process beforehand so you can get pre-approval ahead of time, which automatically kicks in once they have their birthday,” says Jenn, adding that it was stressful compiling extensive paperwork, including getting forms filled in by Charley’s paediatrician and undergoing a visit from a lawyer appointed by the court on her daughter’s behalf.

“There’s so much work and worry, so doing it all in advance would also distance it from the emotional stuff that comes with the actual birthday.”

She’d also like to see changes to rules around who can be exempt from having to be audited.

“At the moment, it’s only if the person has got assets under $5000 and an annual income under $20,000 – thresholds which are very low. The $20,000 figure has been in place since 1988 – it’s time they upped it. The LOPE payment is about $550 a week, so that instantly puts you over the threshold. Literally everyone on any kind of benefit would be over that.”

Having to keep detailed accounts for the rest of Charley’s life is going to be a massive headache.

“What am I supposed to do – separate out her shampoo and toothpaste when I go to the supermarket because I need receipts? I don’t need this. It feels like we’re having to jump through unnecessary hoops and it’s exhausting.”

The family all pitches in to create special moments for Charley.

As much as Charley is loved by her family, they don’t shy away from admitting that she’s a burden.

“People don’t like to use that word but by very definition, it’s true. We had no choice but to commit our lives to looking after her 24/7 – there’s no hope of progression or improvement, so what else would you call it? We just have to get on with it and it’s hard.

“But as hard as it is for us, including her brothers, we do have moments when we can step away. Charley can’t. This is her life and she has no way of escaping it. I’m acutely aware of that.”

Although it has been 18 years, Jenn is still grieving the loss of the person Charley never had the chance to become. The tears flow as she recounts how Mark recently went to buy their daughter new t-shirts in a sale, but most were inappropriate because of the inspirational slogans. “We can’t put her in things that say ‘Potential Leader’ or ‘Getting Ready to Kick Life’s Butt’.”

Jenn and Mark have always made a point of looking after Charley’s fingernails, keeping them manicured and polished, and taking good care of her long, beautiful hair. “People often comment on how gorgeous her hair is and it takes work, but we’ve always done it because growing gorgeous hair is one of the only things she can do. But I hate that I’ll never get to see it bouncing behind her in a ponytail.”

Jenn points out that there are many people in New Zealand like Charley – although most are not as severely disabled as she is – and they and their families need as much help as possible.

“Please don’t make things any harder for us than it already is,” she says, adding that although she’s worn down, she will keep battling to improve life for Charley and people like her. “The only thing that will make this all worth it is if there can be systemic changes at government level. Then I can go, ‘Okay, Charley has changed things and made something better.'”

Real Life

Songbird Sophie’s pinch-me moment meeting her idol

The Kiwi entertainer had a ball performing with British comedian Bill Bailey

They say you should never meet your heroes because you might be disappointed. However, Auckland-based entertainer Sophie Morris would disagree. When she recently found herself sharing the stage with her idol, British comedian Bill Bailey, she couldn’t believe how amazing he was.

“It was one of life’s pinch-me moments,” admits the 30-year-old, who’s best known for singing the national anthem at major sporting events.

“Bill is such a legend and a really special human being,” says Sophie, who shared the stage with the comic at his three Auckland shows in November last year.

“He really was the nicest person with this intrinsic coolness about him. But out of nowhere, he’d say the funniest thing or play something absolutely ridiculous and everyone would crack up.”

Something else that surprised Sophie was how talented her idol was.

“Everyone knows Bill’s a great comedian, but he’s also a hugely talented musician who writes his own songs and plays every instrument going, from the piano to the bagpipes. I sang with Bill on four songs he’d written.”

Sophie never gets tired of singing our national anthem.

Although the pair delivered a pitch-perfect performance, Sophie admits there were some hairy moments.

“I always want to do a good job and it was a sell-out crowd. But the first show was on a Wednesday and I only got confirmation on Tuesday! I literally met Bill at 5pm on the night of our first performance! I’d been sent the material, but Bill is spontaneous and likes to change things. So we were having a quick run through and he’d say, ‘We might change this or that.'”

But Sophie, who has degrees in music and opera from the University of Otago, says Bill was hugely sensitive to her as a performer.

“He’d ask, ‘How do these words suit you?’ He really cared that I was comfortable with the material.”

It wasn’t all work, though. After the final night’s show, Sophie and the rest of the crew cracked open the Champagne with the comedy legend. “That was when he told us he’d only learned to play the bagpipes four days earlier!” she marvels.

Rural bliss with Brad

It was a great way to end a year that had its challenges for Sophie and her partner Brad Fitch, who live on a two-hectare lifestyle block in Puhoi, north of Auckland.

“We’ve been living in a tiny house that Brad’s sister rents out on Airbnb while we built our own house on the property.” But when floods hit the Auckland region last January, the couple was separated by rising flood waters.

“It was early days in our relationship and I was living in Auckland while Brad was in Puhoi,” recalls Sophie.

“I was supposed to head up to Puhoi that night, but the town was badly flooded, and there were lots of slips and washed-out roads. I was so worried because I couldn’t get to Brad and he couldn’t get out. At one stage, Brad thought he might have to get on his paddle board to escape!”

It was a week before the couple could be reunited and Sophie rolled up her sleeves to get stuck in clearing the storm damage.

“The driveway was washed out and there was quite a bit of damage to the property, including a slip that shunted Brad’s sister’s house forward, buckling some doors and warping the floorboards. The house was later moved to a new spot away from the slip.”

However, it hasn’t put Sophie off building her dream home on the rural property, which overlooks rolling hills.

“I love it out here – it’s so peaceful,” she enthuses. “We’ve inherited goats and guinea pigs, and the neighbour’s chickens wander over, so I’m definitely living the rural dream!”

Serenading a goat.

Not that she’ll have much time to enjoy it or get involved with project-managing the build of their new home.

Having recently finished a marketing stint with NZ Opera, Sophie is now juggling a freelance career doing communications work for a mental health foundation and, following her stint as a presenter for the FIFA Women’s World Cup last winter, presenting news and traffic reports on More FM.

“It was such a privilege to help warm up the crowds before the FIFA matches, particularly because I was covering games in Dunedin, which is my hometown. I loved being home again.”

Sophie also hopes to land more work singing on cruise ships – “I did a week’s cruise from Auckland to Dunedin, which was fun” – plus writing and performing her own work. “And I can’t wait to sing at another major sporting event at Eden Park. When I first started singing, one of my goals was to perform at Eden Park, and I’ve now sung the New Zealand, French and Argentinian national anthems there. It’s such a huge career moment when I get to that. It’s almost as good as singing with Bill Bailey!”

Fashion Trends

Swifties, here are the best Eras Tour outfits to shop now

A celebration of music and style

As the anticipation for Taylor Swift’s Eras Tour mounts, Sydney and Melbourne are abuzz with excitement. And for those lucky New Zealanders who’ve secured their tickets (and last-minute accommodation), the question on everyone’s mind is: “What to wear?”

The Eras Tour has evolved into more than just a concert—it’s also a style destination for Swifties to pay fashion homage to their pop idol. So, as you prepare to make your way to the stadiums, our fashion editors have curated an ultimate guide to help you and your friends craft or shop the perfect Taylor Swift outfits.

What are the best Taylor Swift outfits for a party or concert?

When dressing for the Eras Tour or a themed Taylor Swift party, the possibilities are as vast as Taylor’s discography. You could recreate one of her iconic looks from her many eras or perhaps a standout ensemble from a red carpet event.

If you’re unsure, some fail-safe options include cowboy boots and a Nashville t shirt paying homage to Taylor’s country music roots, paired with dazzling sequins to make the whole place shimmer. Friendship bracelets and shades of purple are also excellent choices, harking back to Taylor’s Midnights and Speak Now eras.

Fashion brands like The Iconic, Glassons, and Cotton On have risen to the occasion, curating collections of concert-appropriate attire that’ll make you shine brighter than the stage lights. And remember your shapewear for those sheer, sparkly outfits.

If your priority for the Eras Tour is comfort but you don’t want to compromise on style, we suggest a sparkly yet stretchy knit dress paired with sleek white sneakers. Trust us; Taylor would approve.

Should I DIY a Taylor Swift Eras outfit?

For the DIY enthusiasts among us, crafting store Spotlight has expanded its costume and party ranges (including DIY friendship bracelet kits) to ensure you have all the glitzy materials you need.

So, whether you’re shopping or crafting, here are the best Taylor Swift concert outfit ideas to shop now.

The best Taylor Swift outfits to shop now

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Lenni The Label Chromatic Vest, $159.73, from The Iconic. SHOP NOW.

Round Bead & Alphabet Bracelet Kit, $21.60, from Spotlight. SHOP NOW.

Romance by Honey and Beau Bridgette Dress, $282.31, from The Iconic. SHOP NOW.

Unisex Chuck Taylor All Star High Top, $139.74, from Converse. SHOP NOW.

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Gold Sequin Sneaker, $108 (usually $215), from Motto. SHOP NOW.

Danca Metallic Wide Leg Denim Jeans, $139.99, from Beginning Boutique. SHOP NOW.

Futurist Sequin Dress, $592, from ASOS. SHOP NOW.

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4th & Reckless Sisca Dress, $185.89, from The Iconic. SHOP NOW.

Sparkle Nipple Covers, $13.29 (usually $18.99), from Cotton On. SHOP NOW.

Metallic Backless Crop Top, $29.99 (usually $39.99), from Glassons. SHOP NOW.

Star Shining Sequin Knit Maxi Skirt, $72, from White Fox. SHOP NOW.

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Sequin Halter Top, $39.99, from Glassons. SHOP NOW.

Isabella Anselmi Winona Ankle Boot, $339.90 (usually $389.90), from Merchant 1989. SHOP NOW.

Friendship Bracelets (5-pack), $6.99, from Glassons. SHOP NOW.

River Island Fringed Sequin Mini Dress, $149.91, from ASOS. SHOP NOW.

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Real Life

The Tattooist of Auschwitz author Heather Morris on her new book

The author brings history alive again in a tale about nurses on the frontline

New Zealand-born author Heather Morris shot to fame with her debut novel The Tattooist of Auschwitz in 2018. It tells the true story of Lale Sokolov, a Jew imprisoned at Auschwitz in 1942. When the SS discovered he could speak multiple languages, he became the Tätowierer – the tattooist who branded the prisoners. At the concentration camp he met Gita, falling in love while tattooing her. The story is currently being made into a TV series starring Kiwi Melanie Lynskey as Heather and Harvey Keitel as old Lale Sokolov.

Five years and several books later, Heather again tells incredible, often harrowing stories of people who lived through World War II.

Her latest, Sisters Under the Rising Sun, is the story of the resilience and survival of Australian nurses Vivian Bullwinkel and Nesta James, and English musician Norah Chambers – who at the book’s beginning puts her daughter Sally on a boat leaving Singapore to try to keep her safe as the island falls to the Japanese.

“As a child, I lived in Pirongia, where people are outnumbered by cows and the only books we had before I went to high school was the Encyclopaedia Britannica,” says Heather, 70, who wrote her book Stories of Hope about family and how listening shaped her.

Growing up in Pirongia with her brothers, Heather craved news of the world.

“I had nothing that taught me about the world, except my great-grandfather, who told stories only to me – never to my four brothers.

“I’d get off the school bus and visit him, two paddocks away. We’d sit on the back verandah and he’d tell me about his life, and how he found himself in South Africa in the Boer War at age 16. His older brother wanted to enlist, so both brothers rode horses from Pirongia to Auckland. At the time, the requirement to join the NZ Army was that they could ride a horse, so away he went.

She continues, “On arrival, they were greeted by General Kitchener, who took my great-grandfather under his wing. For the next two years, he was Kitchener’s ‘boy’. Kitchener even wrote to my parents, telling them, ‘I have your son and will see he comes to no harm as long as I’m breathing.'”

Today, Heather loves telling real people’s war- time stories. “I became intrigued by the people, not the circumstances,” she explains.

Previously, Heather worked as a social worker in a trauma hospital for 20 years, where she learnt how to deal with the suffering she’s heard from her books’ characters – first from Lale, then the nurses in Sisters Under the Rising Sun.

“Rule number one of working in trauma is that you can’t take the guilt and pain on board,” she says. “It’s the same with these survivors’ guilt and trauma.”

Heather has spent much of her life listening – a skill she says we’re losing.

“It shouldn’t be a skill you have to learn, to shut up and listen,” she says. “I’m trying hard with my grandkids, who range from ages 11 to four. They’ll be running around yelling, and I’ll say, ‘Sit down and listen to Grandma.’

“When I worked at the hospital, we had to listen every day, that’s the job. So when it came to writing, to telling these people’s stories – how lucky am I to have met these people, to have read and heard their stories?

“Unlike a journalist, I had no time constraints. With Lale, I just happened to meet a beautiful man who wanted to tell his story. It took months before it registered that I was talking to living history.”

Showing her pou (pole) on the Te Awamutu Walk of Fame to her grandkids (from left) Nathan, Ashton and Rachel.

Things were no less impactful when she discovered Norah, Nesta and Vivian.

“My publisher told me about Vivian and I thought, ‘Why would the rest of the world want to hear about a couple of Australian nurses?’ But the more testimonies I read, the more I saw that while all the nurses helped with the physical illnesses of the prisoners, the more the name Norah Chambers came up. It was in her capacity to write music, to form choirs and create a vocal orchestra to create music that lifted the souls of these women who lived in squalor.”

Heather’s research eventually led her to a small article written in a church newspaper on the tiny island of Jersey in 1956, which said Norah was the church’s choir mistress.

“I couldn’t believe it. I rang the church and said, ‘I presume Norah is no longer alive’ and she wasn’t. But her daughter Sally – the little girl who was put on that boat from Singapore in February 1942 – would be there for service on Sunday.”

Nurse Nesta with husband Alexander in 1963.

So Heather travelled to Jersey, meeting 87-year-old Sally, who as a child was told her parents were dead.

“She was fabulous,” says Heather. “She gave me copies of some 80 pages of the scores that her mother had written in the jungle in Sumatra on scraps of paper, which are priceless.”

Both the book and the story within it are fascinating.

“I had testimonies from 500 women,” tells Heather. “I feel incredibly humbled to tell their stories.”

Sisters Under the Rising Sun by Heather Morris (Allen & Unwin, rrp $36.99) is in bookshops now.

Career

Green Party MP Lan Pham on putting family first

The dedicated environmentalist opens up about prioritising her young family as she enters Parliament
Hagen Hopkins

Lan Pham has just one regret about the whirlwind final few months of 2023, when she started her new life as a Green Party MP and somehow also coordinated her young family’s move from Christchurch to Wellington – amid all the chaos, she never made it to the cinema to see Taylor Swift: The Eras Tour.

“I knew I wouldn’t be able to do it justice during election crazy-times,” she says sadly.

A devoted Swiftie – “always and forever”, she affirms – Lan parodied Taylor’s Bad Blood in a 2017 video drawing attention to freshwater pollution in Canterbury, where she was a regional councillor.

The Beehive might require slightly more gravitas, but the 37-year-old still believes in having fun while fighting the good fight. “This work is important, but we’re only on Earth for so long. We’re human beings and it’s OK to enjoy life!”

And whenever she feels discouraged, her husband Emerson, their five-year-old son and their three-year-old daughter are there to cheer her up. “I couldn’t do the job without them.”

Lan was the Green candidate for Banks Peninsula and although she didn’t win the electorate, she easily made it into Parliament at number six on the list, despite having joined the party only a year earlier. She will still spend plenty of time down south, supporting Te Waipounamu’s other Green MPs, but she and Emerson decided a home base in the capital would be best for their family.

“With little kids, it’s the micro life,” she explains. “It’s having breakfast, bathtimes and bedtime stories. I didn’t want to miss any of that.”

With her Green Party caucus.

Lan’s feeling her way with the new-found public attention on her family, keeping her children’s names and faces out of the media for now. “They can make their own decisions when they’re older.”

Lan reports the kids are loving Wellington, in particular the fact their new home has – wait for it – both a staircase and a bathtub. “They’re in heaven,” she laughs.

Emerson, a former politics student who loves the outdoors and worked as a transport planner, has been a stay-at-home dad since their son was born. “He loves taking our kids on adventures. He’s probably going to be devastated when our eldest starts school this year.”

The couple met soon after Lan finished her bachelor’s degree at Massey University, having moved from Wellington to Palmerston North to study science. On graduating, she joined a conservation group in Dunedin to learn “real-world skills – chainsaw-ing, driving tractors, and pest and predator control”.

Emerson was a supervisor and she fell hard for him. But he was set to leave for Canada when the five-month course ended. “So I had to do a last-minute declaration of love.”

It paid off. He’s been by her side ever since, supporting her as she got her master’s in freshwater ecology, worked with the Department of Conservation, started the Working Waters Trust charity with some uni friends and served two terms on Environment Canterbury.

Being with her kids is Lan’s top priority. “I’m going to give this job everything, but I’m not going to give it everything.”

It was during those ECan days that Lan was taught a hard lesson in pacing herself. In 2019, when she was campaigning for her second term on the council, she was so swept up in her mission that even getting hit by a car, when she was on her bike, didn’t slow her down.

Sick and exhausted, she kept going, and it was only a bad case of laryngitis that forced her to stop and rest. It’s hard to chat up voters with no voice!

These days, Lan knows not to let things get to that point.

“I’m going to give this job everything, but I’m not going to give it everything, you know? I’m absolutely going to prioritise being with my kids as they grow up.”

She regularly turns off her phone so she can be more present – something she says will make her a better politician in the long run. “If you prioritise your health and your family’s, I really believe trying to change anything is possible.”

She thinks a lot about her mum Rosalie, who passed away when Lan was 19, just three months after a skin cancer diagnosis. “Life has its challenges and they bring into focus how precious life is and the beauty of it. Life, death and change… They’re all mixed up in the same thing.”

She tells her kids about Grandma Rosalie, a teacher, social worker and “incredible giver”, who passed her love for nature on to her daughter. Meanwhile, Lan inherited her boundless energy and appetite for hard work from her dad, Anh-Tuan, a computer programmer who emigrated from Vietnam in the ’70s.

Green MP Chlöe Swarbrick convinced Lan to run for Parliament.

When Rosalie passed away, Anh-Tuan became a solo father to six children, the youngest of whom was just 11. “It definitely brought us closer together,” Lan shares.

Now with Lan moving back to Wellington, the six siblings and their dad all live in the same city for the first time in 20 years. It meant everything to her that Anh-Tuan was there when she was sworn into Parliament as New Zealand’s first MP of Vietnamese heritage, saying her oath in his native language as well as te reo Māori.

She admits her Vietnamese is a work in progress – she grew up speaking English with her Pākehā mum – and she was scared to let her dad hear it. Luckily, he forgot to bring his hearing aids to Parliament that day!

It’s been a strange entry into national politics, with Lan feeling both ecstatic about the Green Party’s best-ever election result with 15 MPs and deeply concerned about a “pretty bleak” few years under the new right-leaning government, which quickly rolled back smoke-free legislation, Clean Car Discounts and Fair Pay Agreements, among other things.

“I want a liveable future for our kids and grandkids, and what the government has put on the table so far feels like a real setback. But I have a platform for voicing an alternative future, which is positive, and prioritises the health of people and the planet, and that’s why I’m here.”

Career

This iconic musical trio are back and better than ever

These three fab vocalists are a powerful sister act from way back
Emily Chalk

They were once young singers who popped in and out of recording studios to perform vocals for the iconic band Strawpeople in the 1990s.

Now, 30 years later, Fiona McDonald, Stephanie Tauevihi and Leza Corban are swapping the studio for the stage as they come together to perform the songs that Strawpeople created across eight albums. The band is booked to play at two upcoming music festivals – Splore (February 23-25) and WOMAD (March 15-17).

“For a long time, it has always been in the back of my mind that the three of us should get up on stage and sing those songs again,” says Fiona, 58. “I’ve always wanted Strawpeople to play live, but I met with resistance from one of the founders of the band, Paul Casserly.

“I’ve been on at him for two decades and I finally said to him when we released the latest album Knucklebones in August, ‘We either do it now or we die not doing it,'” she laughs. “And he said ‘Yes, let’s go for it.’ Finally!”

It was Fiona’s job to contact Stephanie and Leza, and put the idea to them.

Leza recalls, “When I sat down with Fiona and heard her vision and I realised she had it all planned out, I got so excited!”

Strawpeople legends (from left) Leza, Fiona and Stephanie are about to strut their stuff again.

Leza first came across Strawpeople as a backing singer in the ’90s working on advertising jingles with Paul and Mark Tierney, who together started the band.

“They asked me to sing on their album Broadcast, so we finished a jingle session for World Vision and then literally on the back of that, we recorded the single Sweet Disorder,” she says. She went on to sing on the songs Scared of Flying, Love My Way and City Lights. At the time, Leza says, she was a nerdy girl who just loved to sing.

“I would turn up at the studio and Mark would say things like, ‘Sing like you’ve just woken up’ or, ‘Sex on toast!’ And I would just sing my heart out and loved every bit of it.”

The three women also appeared on the Strawpeople videos, although Leza says with a laugh, “They shot me for more, but in the end, I only made it into one of them.”

Stephanie, 50, was eight months pregnant when she featured in one of the videos, and decided to jump up and down on a trampoline. “Then we all had a moment when we thought perhaps that wasn’t such a great idea!” she laughs.

Leza went on from her Strawpeople days to form her own band, the Love Jones, performing regularly at corporate events and at Auckland inner-city bars, plus she also teaches singing at several high schools in Auckland and works with them on their musical productions.

“Leza is the real singer,” says Fiona. “We’re really hoping we get some lessons from her in rehearsal because she’s kept her voice warm for 30 years using it most days, whereas Stephanie and I have not.”

Bring it on! The vivacious creatives are calling themselves the Strawsisters.

Stephanie is best known to TV viewers as feisty paramedic Donna Heka on Shortland Street, a role she played for seven years. However, before that, aged just 15, she strongly suggested to Mark that she sing on their album.

“Their song One Good Reason came out and I thought, ‘I could do that!'” recalls Stephanie. “I was at a De La Soul concert at the Auckland Town Hall, when I saw Mark and rocked up to him and said something show-offy. I wish I still had that kind of confidence – I don’t have it any more.

“I told him that I could sing for him and I was much better than whoever was singing for them at the time. I was that cocky.”

So a young Stephanie found her way to the Strawpeople studio in Karangahape Road, went upstairs and sang on the song Beautiful Skin.

“After that, they said, ‘Okay, we’ll give you a go,’ and so I ended up singing on the John Hiatt song Have a Little Faith, then Love Explodes, I Believe, Under the Milky Way and Turn of the Century.”

Prior to that, Stephanie had been talent-spotted at 14 performing in Little Shop of Horrors at Auckland’s Northcote College. She went on to work on two children’s shows on TV3 while still at school.

“I would be picked up from school and taken to the studios, and I loved every minute of it,” she tells.

Shortland Street followed, but these days, Stephanie has a different career.

“I’m a health coach and a sustaining tenancies navigator for Turuki Health Care in South Auckland,” she says. “My primary job is to keep people in tenancies, working with whanau who live in Kāinga Ora homes, helping people who are going through shared driveway issues or no engagement from the landlord. I become their advocate, speaking on their behalf, and keeping things on track so they don’t become homeless. It’s an incredibly rewarding job and Turuki is a great Māori kaupapa organisation. It’s great being a pavlova on stage and singing an INXS song, but this job gives a different feeling of achievement and purpose, because it’s doing things for the whanau and making their day, even if it is small things.”

Fiona first came across Strawpeople when she worked with Paul and Mark at the University of Auckland’s radio station 95bFM. She explains, “I went to live in Australia for a couple of years and while I was over there, they released the single One Good Reason. I remember feeling very envious that I wasn’t a part of the project. Similar to Steph’s story, I worked with them to write the jingle for Primo milk and sang on that, then we stayed in the studio and wrote Blue. That was the first song I sang for them, in 1988.”

Fiona went on to sing on the cover of the Chris Knox song Slide, then Trick with a Knife, the whole of the album Vicarious, then Crying, Running Away and Dream Child.

“At the time, I was part of a couple of bands, but Strawpeople was the first real involvement with a group that was making music that I was really into and that I loved,” she says. “And it was the first time that I was a songwriter.”

Fiona went on to join the very popular Headless Chickens and has continued being involved with music.

“I am doing some casting work for television and some commercial work,” she says. “I’ve also started teaching ukulele again to adults, which I adore. I love getting people in touch with the creative musical side of themselves, which most of the time has been stomped on during primary school and they’ve been steered away from it.

“The other thing is creating that space in people’s lives as adults where they get to come and spend time with me. Half is the music and the other half is mental health stuff. I take them away from their work and their family, and obviously it’s very serious music lessons, but we also laugh a lot.”

Fiona says that from the very start in 1985, Strawpeople was always about collaboration with many musicians, including herself, Leza and Stephanie.

“But at the core has been Paul and I only, because we’ve worked together more often and our partnership is the longest within Strawpeople,” she explains. “It’s nice that Paul is now so enthusiastic about playing live and he wants to do more music, and the three of us women should do some new recording to get that happening.”

However, when the Weekly caught up with them towards the end of last year, there was just one problem – the trio had yet to meet in the same room and start rehearsing. They were eager to squeeze in some practices as soon as possible, though.

“We’re going to start with the three of us just singing together, separate from the band, so that we can work out what we can do.”

Stephanie says she’s always felt like the women were like ships passing in the night.

“We’d pop into studio sessions, see each other and say hi, but we’ve never sat in a circle and seen what that looks like, so that’s a real treat for me.”

She believes the three of them will produce magic. They are informally calling themselves the Strawsisters and are determined that the live performances will cover all eight albums.

“The beauty of it is that we all get to sing our own songs again, but this time we will have each other backing us up,” says Fiona. “I didn’t know that I was ever going to get back on stage. And now it’s actually happening! Leza has been on stage for the past 30 years – she never stopped – but for Steph and I to get back up there, that is so beautiful.”

Adds Stephanie, “I think there was a reason that Paul and Mark got us three to sing on the albums. It will be so lovely to go on that journey with Fiona and Leza, and find that magic for ourselves. It’s very exciting.”

Celebrity News

Why Shorty star Te Ao owes her skyrocketing career to her mum

From local dramas to playing Jason Momoa’s wife in a Hollywood blockbuster, the East Coast actress is taking the show biz world by storm
Zoe Harata Photography

After starring in New Zealand’s favourite soap Shortland Street, actress Te Ao o Hinepehinga Rauna’s career is going global – and she owes it all to a high-flying Hollywood agent who stumbled upon her stunning performance in the rugby drama Head High.

Smiling, the 29-year-old explains, “Mike Gillespie is married to Anna Hutchison from Go Girls and a few years ago, they were flying back to New Zealand to visit Anna’s family with their new bubs, which is how Mike happened to watch Head High on the plane.”

Keen to take a punt on Te Ao’s talent, Mike reached out and suggested they meet.

She recalls, “Mike liked my vibe and that I answered his questions honestly. But I also told him I thought he was crazy, so Mike said that if he didn’t get me a job in the first year, he’d owe me one!”

As it turned out, Mike’s hunch was right and the East Coast beauty’s talent saw her land a lead role in Breakwater, a futuristic climate-change drama filmed in Mexico. Making waves with her dynamic performance, Te Ao was soon offered another big gig, playing Jason Momoa’s wife in Apple TV+’s Chief Of War.

Action! Te Ao exploring Mexico while filming Breakwater.

But it’s not all lucky breaks and red carpets for Te Ao, who is of Ngāti Porou and Ngāti Kahungunu descent. She will always be grateful to her mum, Tania Rina Rauna, 50, for being her biggest supporter. “My mum is a firecracker – a revolutionary gamechanger who plays by her own rules to make positive change for others.”

Upon hearing such high praise from her eldest daughter, mother-of-five Tania beams broadly. “And I’m the proudest mum in the whole universe!”

Speaking to Woman’s Day at Tania’s new house in Gisborne – “it’s the first home I’ve ever actually owned, my forever whare” – it’s clear the two women share a close bond.

Te Ao tells us, “Even though Mum’s a whānau activist and youth worker, when she was younger, she dreamed of being a professional dancer and one of my earliest memories is of watching Mum breakdance in our shed, blasting music from a boombox.”

Laughing, Tania confirms, “I was one of the first girls to breakdance back in the ’80s in Gisborne – doing head spins, back spins and windmills. Then in the ’90s, we got into hip-hop and all that MC Hammer stuff, but my dad insisted all his kids went to uni.”

Which is how Tania found herself at the University of Waikato. She continues, “My original dream was to study dance at the performing arts school in Auckland, but Dad signed me up to study accounting. He and my grandmother were determined my sister and I would have opportunities beyond shearing and forestry.”

Tania says she’s the “proudest mum in the universe”.

But rather than attend her accounting lectures, Tania entered dance competitions.

“It was my way of rebelling, but when Dad realised I wasn’t studying, he made me come home to work with our people, to remind me what was important. From there, I changed courses, signing up to major in political science and Māori development. We were the first lot of graduates to go through that programme.”

In spite of Tania being steered away from dance, when Te Ao showed a flair for performance and kapa haka, the proud mum was determined her daughter should pursue her passion. “I told her to follow her dream and I’ve been her number-one supporter ever since.”

Tania also hoped her daughter’s interest in drama would keep her grounded while they dealt with some real-life drama at home. Tania explains, “When Te Ao was about 15 and I was pregnant with my fifth child, I discovered that my husband was having an affair. It got pretty ugly and emotional, and acting was something precious Te Ao could hold on to.”

Which is why, straight after school, Te Ao went to Christchurch to study for a bachelor of musical theatre. However, uni wasn’t all plain sailing and over the course of that three-year degree, Te Ao tried to quit several times.

Tania recalls, “She came home crying now and then as there were some difficulties, but I told her to stick it out.”

Head High,Te Ao is starring with A-listers.

Making it through those tough times certainly helped Te Ao weather the storms of a creative life and also gave her the courage to move to Sydney after graduation. “But rather than further my acting career over there, I took a detour and ended up working as a Latin showgirl, like a samba dancer – all feathers, sequins and big headdresses,” she tells.

No matter how hard she tried, Te Ao couldn’t break into acting over there and, after two years in Oz, she was ready to throw in the towel. At that same time, her beloved grandfather Tiopira Hape Rauna died and she returned to Aotearoa for the tāngi.

“I felt so lost when I came home. I didn’t think I could do it any more, but thank goodness Mum insisted I not let Papa’s passing be the reason I gave up.”

Tania says, “If my kids have a dream, I sit on them to go after it and pretty soon Te Ao got an agent in Auckland.”

“It was so freaky,” continues Te Ao. “From life having been so tough, everything just torpedoed in the right direction and my biggest dreams started to come true. It made me wonder if my Papa was doing some sort of magic up there because after years of rejection, I finally got my lucky break!”

It’s certainly hard to imagine a bigger opportunity than being cast as Jason Momoa’s wife on Chief Of War, a blockbuster series recently filmed in Aotearoa and Hawai’i, also starring Temuera Morrison and Cliff Curtis. When asked about the experience, Te Ao can’t give too much away, but her beaming face paints a picture.

“I’ve been given strict instructions not to spoil anything, but I can say it’s an incredible drama inspired by historic events, about the unification of Hawai’i, told from an indigenous perspective.”

Downtime at the beach in Hawai’i.

As for working with the handsome Hollywood hunk, Te Ao is clearly smitten. “I would take a bullet for Jay. I have so much respect for the way he put his heart and soul into Chief Of War. He also has a huge heart and a crazy-big mind, like a five-year-old on a sugar rush!”

After a short Christmas break with whānau in Gisborne, Te Ao has spent the summer rehearsing Hyperspace, Auckland Theatre Company’s first show for 2024. A musical drama that teleports audiences back to the heady days of competitive aerobics in the ’80s, it’s a world of high ponytails, leotards and legwarmers, where Te Ao plays small-town girl Natalie Te Rehua, who dreams of becoming a dancer.

“To fulfil her ambition, Natalie enters the New Zealand Aerobics Championships, but the characters aren’t just dancing for themselves – they’re performing for everyone who’s ever been told they can’t, which is a story I can totally relate to.” It’s also a tale that certainly resonates with her mum.

As for pursuing the Hollywood dream, Te Ao is keen to just go with the flow when it comes to her future in acting. “I’m putting my faith in the universe and I’ll go wherever the wind blows me,” she says. And with Tania cheering her on, it’s sure to be an adventure!

Auckland Theatre Company’s Hyperspace opens 7 February. For info and tickets, visit atc.co.nz.