Body & Fitness

How to be in the friend zone

A 2013 study found our friendship network hits its peak in our twenties, then decreases as we get older. So how do you find friends… and keep them?
Friend zone

Prioritise friendship:

Friends are a great sources of stress relief and not having them is bad for your health – a US study found it’s the equivalent of smoking 15 cigarettes a day.

Join a club, or form your own:

The reason we make most of our friends at school or work is because we see them all the time: consistency is the best way to form lasting bonds. Starting a book club or a dinner club is a great way to get to know people you only see fleetingly.

Go on a friendship date:

When you meet someone you think you could be friends with, make the first move and ask them out for a drink, or to join you for a weekend activity.

Keep in contact:

Social media makes it too easy to take a passive interest in our friends’ lives, so make a phone call and arrange to meet up. The friendships that stand the test of time get stronger as we get older. A little bit of effort every now and then may be all you need.

Words by: Emma Clifton

Photos: Thinkstock

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