‘American Idol’ judge Paula Abdul is once again in the gossip columns- this time however it is for going through three publicists in three weeks. A video tape of Paula complaining about her publicists Howard Bargman has been circulating around Hollywood. An insider says “Paula hires and fires a new assistant every 10 days.” Another reports “If you want to be Paula’s publicist, you have to spend hours on the phone with her literally listening to her cry or else she will think you don’t love her.”