**Dear Wendyl,
**Am I being a stalker if I became a Facebook friend of my ex by using another name? My friend thinks I am, but I just like keeping up to date with what he’s up to – I’m not trying to get back with him or anything. What do you think?
*Dana, by email
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**Dear Dana,
**Yes. If you’d used your real name and he’d accepted you as his friend, that would be fine. But you’re hiding behind an alias in order to peer into his private life. Stop it.
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