On July 4, widely known as US Independence Day – or as Pam (58) wryly and somewhat aptly calls it, "Co-dependence Day"– the couple will celebrate five years together. They've had their ups and downs, and there are still daily challenges the pair must meet head on. But they're happy – incredibly so – and live a wonderfully sober life in their West Auckland home. If you pop in for a visit, you're sure to be offered a mug of herbal tea and the promise of a great yarn.
But there's not a day that goes by without a hug and a kiss."